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The Anxiety of Separation of Young Children in Kindergarten and Strategies
Abstract
At the beginning of a term in kindergarten, children are in the period to adapt to the transition phase of nursery separating from the family. There is always a phenomenon of crying, which is a signal of separation anxiety. If there are no any timely and effective actions, it will seriously affect the healthy growth of children when separation occurs. It becomes main task for teachers in kindergarten to reduce the children separation anxiety and stabilize their emotions during this period. This paper researches the performance of separation anxiety and its disadvantages by collecting and sorting out a lot of relevant information. The paper also analyzes the factors which affect childrens separation anxiety. The author brings up some suggestions on how to eliminate young childrens separation anxiety.
Key words£ºChildren, new admission, separation anxiety, countermeasures
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